Her cleft lip makes her feel ugly.
Her older brother, Theo, says she is always touching her nose. When asked why, Banay leans over and whispers into the translator’s ear, “I was ashamed.” It was her way of hiding her face.
Banay is extremely quiet and shy, mainly because she also has a cleft palate. This makes it difficult to eat because food often goes into her nose when she swallows. It can also cause hearing difficulties because the soft palate muscles are connected to the middle ear, increasing the chance of ear infections and potential hearing loss. It has severely limited her ability to produce clear speech. Theo says, “Sometimes we really do not understand what she wants, what she is saying.”
The inability to speak clearly robs Banay of many things that are part of a normal life – things like leaving the house without fear or connecting with people. Banay wants friends, but says that she doesn’t have any. It is hard to build friendships when people can’t understand you.
In Madagascar, the average starting age for school is between four and seven, depending on the region in which someone lives. Banay does not attend school, so she cannot read or write. As a result, her future opportunities are greatly limited.
Nurse Brenda Sossou, from Canada who coordinates the Mercy Ships speech therapy program, says, “With a lot of palate patients, it’s not that they haven’t tried to learn to speak or that they don’t have the intelligence to speak. It’s often that they can’t get their point across clearly enough to be understood. So sometimes, they don’t have the heart to try.”
A free surgery to repair Banay’s cleft lip and palate and subsequent speech therapy exercises have restored Banay’s life.
After only one week, she showed great improvement. Her speech therapy exercises included blowing bubbles to teach her how to control holding air in her mouth, a previously impossible feat which is essential to making sounds.
She also had to make funny faces to strengthen her muscles. Banay certainly knows how to enjoy herself. She was a funny-face-making genius, showcasing many creative arrangements of her facial features. The people who will eventually become her friends are lucky human beings.
As a result of all of this hard work in therapy, Banay is learning to put sounds into words and sentences. She was given an abundant supply of flash cards. Brenda says, “The hope is that if she continues these exercises we have given her, diligently and regularly, she will one day be able to have clear speech.”
Big brother Theo says, “We are very happy because now Banay looks like everyone else. We are also happy that her speech has improved. Thank you very much. We are really impressed at the materials used to fix the clefts. The kindness of the doctors and nurses who took care of Banay – we really appreciated it.”
The most wonderful part of this story is that Banay finally feels beautiful enough to face the world … a world that is now full of possibilities.
Brenda says, “I have a tendency to tell my patients that I look forward to hearing about them becoming the next president, or future doctor, surgeon or lawyer … so I can hear their speech.”
And we are sure that Banay will have a great deal to say!
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It was a journey that would take 6 Mercy-Shippers braving around 33 miles and 5 days through rivers and rice fields, hiking up and down approximately 2,500 feet of altitude, driving through mud, canoeing, and much more – but the outcome was worth it. The ‘Fellowship of Sambany’ (as these crew members called themselves) accompanied Sambany, a man whose 7.46 kg tumour volunteer surgeons had removed months ago, and his grandson Flavy, safely home!
Sambany’s Wife Sees Him Without His Tumor For The First Time…
No one we met was as spunky as the woman with the colorful hat, cheeky grin and a thumbs-up always at the ready: Sambany’s wife, Barazafy. She said,
How differently Barazafy feels now. She shares how her heart raced upon seeing her husband for the first time in five months. And then she describes seeing him without his tumour for the first time, “I did not recognize Sambany! … I said, “Is it you?” I was really happy!”
Sambany’s Sister’s Reaction…
We met Sambany’s sister in a village on the way to his home village of Sahanomby. Her emphatic exclamations revealed an astounded woman,
She looked at her brother and said, “You got a second chance.”
Sambany and Barazafy’s first steps onto their home soil were directed straight to the center of their village. There, they prayed. When they had finished, they made their way to a little wooden hut under the amazed and intrigued stares of the other villagers. These people took turns pouring into the hut, where they listened attentively to the tale of a man who they had thought had been dead for months and gaped at the photographic evidence of his experience.
Radio, Dance, Celebration!
Sambany’s journey began with a radio (where he heard about Mercy Ships), and it will end with a radio. Throughout our trek, the mountains of Madagascar were filled with tunes blasting from his radio (including ‘Alouette’ and songs by One Direction). Flavy and Sambany occasionally let their inner flow out as spontaneous mini-dances (one of Sambany’s dances looked like tap-dancing). The night of Sambany’s return, his radio was the center of a dance party celebrating his healing. We asked Barazafy if she was going to dance with him. She said, “Yes! The whole village is going to dance with him!”
Saying Goodbye to Sambany...
The morning of Sambany’s first full day at home without his tumor, his village held a ceremony dedicated to thanking Mercy Ships for granting him another chance at life. Following a gift of three chickens and a bag of rice, Sahanomby’s spiritual leader gave a heartfelt, grateful speech.
His people assembled to wave us goodbye, and as we shook Sambany’s (and fist-bumped Barazafy’s) hands, we looked into their faces and saw joy. The joy of a man and his family free from a terrible burden; who are free to live.
Mercy Ships patients are not the only ones who experience transformed lives. Crew members create treasured memories of heart-lifting and heart-breaking moments. Ward Nurse Heather Morehouse shares a special story:
When you first arrived on the ward, I saw your face … how your lip was pulled up and made your face look like you had a permanent scowl … how your left eye was missing, and your face was distorted … how you played, but were very aggressive, as if you’d spent your whole life fighting …
I found out that, when you were a week old, your mother left you at home with your older siblings so she could go to work to support you. When she came home, she found that you had been attacked by some animal!
It left a hole in your face that got infected, probably with a flesh-destroying bacteria called noma. It ate away your nose and ruined your eye. A local doctor sewed your eye shut and advised your mom to pour hot water on your eye every day for the next five years. Your mom didn’t know what else to do.
You came to us needing a new nose … but you are leaving with a new heart.
Obstetric Fistula? Some might nod their head and pretend they know what these words mean, but many Canadians do not.
Vesico-vaginal Fistula (VVF) is traumatizing. It is a child birth related injury where a hole develops between the rectum and vagina or between the bladder and vagina. Women who survive days of labor and the death of their baby are left incontinent, which means they have no control over constantly leaking urine and feces. This condition affects millions of women around the world, primarily in poverty stricken countries where there is very limited access to healthcare and an emergency caesarean section
Free surgeries are provided for women on board the Africa Mercy and training is given to local & international health care professionals including surgeons, nurses and traditional birth attendants.
Monica Ciolfi from Qualicum Beach, British Columbia recently returned from the Africa Mercy where she spent three months working as a Nurse and caring for many fistula patients.
“If a woman in Canada can’t have a vaginal delivery she has a C-section and no one’s life is jeopardized. In certain cultures in Africa some women are left to deliver their babies in isolation as a rite of passage, or they are too far away from a hospital, or can’t afford medical care for their delivery” says Monica.
The Africa Mercy is currently docked in Tamatave, Madagascar where It is estimated by the World Health Organization (WHO) that 2,000 Malagasy women develop fistula each year with around 50,000 Malagasy women in need of surgery.
“When I visited the local children’s ward there was a baby with her grandmother because her mother had died giving birth. There is no reason why a woman should die during childbirth. For all the doctors and nurses working in labour and delivery in Canada, the women of the world need you”
Monica cared for patients who each had an unbelievable story to tell.
Patients like Florine.
Florine is 39 and has lived with VVF for 25 years. She was married around 14 years old to a young man in her village, which is located in a remote part of Madagascar to the north of Tamatave. Shortly after her marriage Florine got pregnant, but when it came time to delivering her child there were complications.
There was no midwife present and after an undetermined amount of time, Florine lost the baby. Florine became sick after the birth and it took one full month for her to recover. It was during this time that she realized she was leaking urine. Florine brought three other babies to full term to have them die at child birth, two other pregnancies were miscarriages.
Unable to conceive children and incontinent, Florine was abandoned by her husband. She was alone in a small village in the extreme north of Madagascar. (more…)